Well, its April! Autism Month! I love & hate this month all at the same time. On one hand a lot of good awareness is raised but on the other hand the vultures come out of the wood work to make a buck off of it! I am probably just a bit grumpy but it sure seems like there is a lot of donating going on & not a lot of programs being offered. Or maybe its just where we live, I don't know but hey...not knowing has never stopped me from bitching a little about something! I'm sure Autism Speaks & the scores of other groups out there do some good things & the bone that I pick is not that my family isn't getting anything out of it, we do okay. My problem is I don't know, see, or read about ANY families really reaping benefits. After sneaking a peak at the tax reports for massive organizations like Autism Speaks it really stings to see how much money is going INTO these groups Vs. how much {& to who} all that money is going OUT to.
What started all my grumpiness is when I read the article in the Huffington Post about 10 things to do after an autism diagnosis. That started it. What wound it up to me having a drink & tweeting mean things to the author was the other article she wrote about how most dads of autistic kids turn tail & run leaving the mother to care for the kid! Grrrr!! So what did I do about all my grumpiness!?! Nothing! Ryan Gosling's got my back though!
As always head over to Sunday Stilwell's blog Adventures In Extreme Parenthood to see all the other bloggers linking up their Special Needs Ryan Gosling posts! They are crazy funny & one of the highlights of my week.
On a side note my wife, who is only the best photographer on the whole earf, took just a few photos of me & I loved the way they turned out so I thought I would share a couple!
YES! I totally agree with you on the Autism Speaks stuff! So, so agree. After doing some research and seeing how much money those guys make, I just decided to focus on grassroots, small organizations that actually help us. Because truly, I don't see much benefits coming to my family from AS.
ReplyDeleteLOVE the Ryan pic. I totally agree with you about Autism Speaks, while I can see how they do spread some knowledge about Autism the actual 'help' they provide in the real world is so minimal that I just can't in conscience donate money to them.
ReplyDeletep.s. Your wife is a great photographer!
I'm not a fan of autism speak either! :-)
ReplyDeleteLove the pictures your wife took too.
Awww, I love the pictures!! Your wife's a great photog!
ReplyDeleteYou and your wife ROCK. That. Is. All.
ReplyDeleteyup.
ReplyDeletethere needs to be an autism organization that provides help with the freakin' therapy bills. and medical bills.
love your site. love finding other like-minded autism parents...
Isn't that the truth!?! Thanks to you and Ryan for spreading some truth! :)
ReplyDeleteI've always loved Ryan because he is pro anti-circumcision!
ReplyDeleteMy son was just recently diagnosed with Asperger's late last year - so I am learning new things everyday. Thanks for the great info - I agree it is hard to find financial support.
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